Watch Your Language! ~ Courtney

Once babies catch on that there’s a sign for everything, they are always watching and listening.  Most of us make an attempt to moderate our language once we have little ones in the house, especially once they start verbalizing.  There’s nothing worse that hearing a toddler drop the f-bomb!  Those of us with signing babies have to watch our body language too though!  I learned this lesson just this morning at breakfast when my husband made a comment I disagreed with.  I retorted with a juvenile gesture that I learned in elementary school and have rarely used since.  Needless to say it’s very non-PC!  Well, who would have thought that the little man enjoying his breakfast in his high chair was also keeping a close eye on our conversation?  The next thing we knew he was mimicking my “sign” and I was trying not to laugh.  Today’s lesson: Watch your (sign) language!

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The Challenge Of Signing ~ Chris

The challenge that is baby signing – learning a new skill.  There are many reasons to sign with your baby, but probably one of the least to be listed is that signing is a great personal challenge.  Very few of us speak more than one language, but the beauty of teaching ASL to your baby is that it’s a real living language.  That’s right, teaching and learning ASL will turn you bilingual.  If you travel anywhere in North America, your hand gestures and movements will be recognized by others.

Think of learning ASL like a form of personal development.  Call signing a skill and one you can develop and cultivate from the comfort of your own home.  Not only this, but after its mastery, you can teach it to another living person – your baby.  You could spend your baby’s early years learning to knit scarves and mittens, but these will only be useful in winter and won’t help beyond retaining warmth.  The challenge of learning and teaching ASL are so much more broad and far reaching.  Besides, when you knit, it’s just you and yarn – what a yawn.  As a signing Dad, I can say unequivocally that it has been great fun to learn to sign with my son and one I wouldn’t trade for any other skill.

Signing is easy too, that’s the best part.  It’s easy to learn to sign a word in less than a minute, perfect with a few strokes and apply in a fraction of the time.  Signing is as easy as looking up a desired word and doing it.  You have all the tools right in front of you so long as you have a good working signing dictionary.  Learning ASL is a learn as you go sort of thing which is great.  All you need to do is stay one or two signs ahead of your little guy.  If you can keep up with a baby – you can teach ASL.  Signing is a great way to develop yourself, not to mention all the side benefits you will enjoy as you connect with your baby.

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Babies Creating Sign Language ~ Chris

Toddlers are wonderfully creative and when they’ve been taught to sign, they’ll use this avenue to express themselves just as they would any other.  This is why you should come to expect that your signing baby will eventually make a sign up!  If you’re armed and ready for all interests, you might stifle this tendency, but even this might cause your baby to label things to their choosing since their understanding of sign language will be greater.

After a while your baby understands that hand movements and actions have meaning.  Your baby might make something up by twisting their hands in specific and repeated ways while even holding their fingers in a specific handshape!  This is a demonstration of their real understanding of sign language and is a milestone within baby sign language.  What happens next is up to you.  You can let it slip by and celebrate it, or correct it with the correct ASL version.  This will be entirely up to you and will depend on your ultimate aim with baby sign language.  Will you continue with it as a second language or will you eventually drop signs?

The more brazen of children will also insist that certain things are different from what they are.  This is a clear illustration of the type of personality they have.  For example, some babies might insist that an APPLE is actually a BALL or vice versa.  Even after cutting up the apple and serving it to your baby, he still might insist that he ate a ball!  Yes, your baby is a bit stubborn!  This is why signing is so great, it helps us learn about our babies much before we could otherwise.

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The Baby Version of HELP ~ Chris

The sign for HELP in ASL is done by dropping the closed fist with thumb up onto an open palm and then raising both together.  I sincerely tried to teach the accurate version despite my research that suggested alternative signs for babies.  A lot of early research, in fact, suggested that signing parents use many different signs from ASL, and for good reason.  Many ALS signs are approximated by babies because they are hard for them to do.  I suppose the point is that many signs are still recognizable when approximated from ASL.  This is with the one notable, and important exception – the sign for HELP.

So having tried to do the correct route for some time, I accepted the early wisdom and dropped the true ASL sign in favour of the baby sign version which is suggested as both open palms patting the chest.  Most of the more recent teachings on baby sign language favours this as an acceptable alternative because of the signs importance and difficulty.  When I taught me son the real ASL sign, he never even bothered to try to model it himself.  I still knew when he wanted help, that much was obvious, and he had learned over 80 signs by the time we finally gave up, so it’s not like he didn’t “get signing” – because he did.  The point was that this one sign is very hard for a baby to do and sometimes, no matter how ardent you are on staying true to ASL, sometimes you have to be flexible and reasonable with your signing.  After three or four tries with hands patting the chest nearing his 16th month, he had picked up the new sign like is was commonsense.  It was really that easy.  Any other time I tried to teach him the ASL sign for HELP, he’d look at me with funny eyes and essentially dismiss it.  If you still want to try to teach HELP using ASL, by all means go for it.  Eventually your little guys is going to pick it up, but it might take a bit longer than you have patience for.  It’s also such an important sign that you might just want to bend on this one.

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Obsession With The Telephone ~ Chris

The sign for TELEPHONE was one of the first signs that my son did very well and he became obsessed with it.  It’s an easy sign to do because it’s a “natural sign” that looks an awful lot like the word it’s trying to replace.  You just bring your hand up to your ear like you are talking on a telephone with thumb and pinky finger extended.  Don’t expect your baby to do the sign perfectly though, he’ll probably just bring his hand up and cover his ear, but that’s a pretty good sign approximation.

Once my baby had learned the sign, there were suddenly phones everywhere!  He’d ask for our portable model and carry it all over the house pretending to talk on it.  It got to the point where I dug up an old corded spare phone which we keep for emergencies and gave that to him so we could have of it.  Once that association was made, he’d even sign it out when the phone rang.  He wasn’t so sure what to do when grandma got on the phone though!  A bit puzzled we coxed a few murmurs out of him though and eventually taught him how to do a version of “Hi” and then do his animal sounds as he grew more verbal.  Even at 16 months, he’d still do the sign when he heard one ring on television.

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