Signing Colours ~ Chris

Turns out that signing colours is a difficult thing to do.  While my son understood readily the labels and could do the signs, he seemed to guess randomly when quizzed on objects that were unfamiliar to him.  With time, he got better, but this might be due to knowing more colours.  It seemed that when he concentrated, he would get the colours better.  This sort of trial and error progressed from 16 months right through to 20 months plus.

I’ve read that children can start labeling colours at around 3 years of age, so there might be something to waiting.  We never pressed our son hard with colours or made a big deal when he guessed incorrectly.  I think you should be careful when you push a child past an age appropriate expectation.  If he guessed wrong, we just tell him the real colour.  Also, when teaching colours, you never know if your baby is colour blind or can’t see shades well in a given colour spectrum.  Because of this, you don’t want to make colour labeling a “high stakes” game.

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Teaching Egg ~ Chris

Eggs were a staple of our household for breakfast – for a time.  So it was fitting that we did a demonstration of what eggs where to teach him the sign with more than just a few strewn sentences and repetition.  We cook on cast iron, so this was a useful element, but you can do it with Teflon too.  First I gave my son the egg in its shell and told him verbally to be gentle.  I also did the sign so he got the message two different ways.  He knew not to drop it because gentle had been reinforced through TOUCH GENTLE as soon as he could wave his arms!

After he had a good sense of the egg as a whole thing, I took it back from him and did the sign for EGG.  I gave it back to him and signed it again.  Instantly, he waved his arms up and down.  The sign for EGG is done as if cracking an egg.  The arms are moved thumb up, yet together, to thumb down in a twisting motion.  Think of the motion you do while cracking an egg into a pan.  Next I heated up the cast iron pan on the stove to the point where it was really hot.  I brought it to the floor so we both could watch the demonstration.  I obviously put a hot pad on the floor so it didn’t catch fire to anything!  I had my wife make sure our son didn’t touch the hot pan and also did the sign for my son’s benefit.  The pan is HOT – NO TOUCH.  At this point, he understood the sign for HOT.  Next I cracked the egg and dropped it into the pan to the amusement of my son.  He was delighted to see it instantly sizzle and begin to cook.  We then did the sign for EGG again and my son copied his approximation once again.

Naturally what followed was for breakfast!  We ate the egg and did the sign for it again.

In the span of 10 minutes we had involved his visual, kinesthetic and auditory senses in addition to his sense of taste.  This produced a full lesson for him about eggs.

When you teach signs, think of all the different ways you can get a kids mind working.  The more ways you can show something, the more complete the package.  From that day forward, my son had an excellent concept of what and egg is, how it’s prepared and how it appears in various forms.

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Fostering Communication ~ Chris

There are times when you are sure your baby is making a sign.  It’s usually when your baby becomes focused on something, pointing and repeating a gesture.  Usually my wife and I are on the same page as for as which signs are being taught so we can each be watchful for their appearance, however this time was a little bit different.

My son was reading his oversized book filled with Sesame street characters and began waving his hand back and forth as he pointed to an image in the book.  It’s been a while since I was perplexed, and yet his sign was intensified.

Instead of ignore him, I recognized that he wanted to communicated so I came down to his level and asked him to point to what he was talking about.  Again, he moved his hand back and forth at the wrist.  I still had no idea and I explained this to him so he knew he would have to work a little bit harder to get his point across, without getting frustrated.  He did the sign a couple more times and pointed.  I still had no idea, and then he pointed to the couch and did the sign again.  He was signing BLUE!  I thought, boy, that’s brilliant!  My wife had been teaching him the sign over the last few days and I knew about it, but it just didn’t click.

It turns out that at 17 months, he hadn’t fully grasped the concept of colours, but he was properly labeling the things we had taught him were blue.  For example, he would incorrectly label some objects as BLUE and some as RED when he hadn’t been taught the sign or had confused them because he forgot.  Nevertheless, I thought that it was a very impressive that he was able to generalize across two things to demonstrate exactly what he meant.  Truly amazing!

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Being Patient For Your Baby To Sign Back ~ Chris

Most babies will sign back after about 2-4 weeks after being introduced signs at about 10-11 months of age.  However, the exception remains where a baby will take up to 6 months or even longer before making their first sign.  This can be very frustrating for signing parents and naturally they start to worry that something is wrong with their baby because they don’t fit neatly into the mould of the children before them.

To these parents, it’s important to stay the course.  The longer your baby takes to sign back necessitates that you remain diligent and persistent.  Your baby is giving you a clue about their learning needs, so if you give up on them now, you will be doing them a great disservice.  I should also mention that just because your baby isn’t signing back, does not mean that they aren’t benefiting from the signing that you are doing.  Many parents find that signing, like talking, can require an unseen “switch” to flick.  Once that happens, baby rapidly signs or talks and catches up quickly to their peers.  In fact, there are times when an early start does not always predict future success as can be confirmed by many successful adults today.

What is important though, is that you remain constructive and encouraging without scolding and without grilling or pressuring.  Just take the time each day to do your routine based signs, paying particular attention to other signs you might add for things your baby really finds interesting and sit back ready to catch your baby’s first sign.  While you think it might take an eternity, you’ll look back on this early experience and realize just how quickly everything went.  Always enjoy the moment instead of rushing your baby to grow up.  One day your little guy is going to be off to school, getting a job, buying a house and having his own family, so be in the here and now, and enjoy each moment as it comes.

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Signing Things That Are Out Of Sight

When baby can finally sign things that are out of sign, he has graduated a level.  This is a special moment in your baby’s signing career.  It’s also very amusing for parents as they shift from the tangible world – the here and now, to the imagined and creative world of toddlers.

I remember my son signing things he wanted like MILK, RAISINS, CEREAL and WATER as well as a slew of others such as MONKEY and MOON.  Obviously he would sign foods and drink when he wanted them, but signs for monkey and moon would be signed because he wanted to see images of them which we’d been studying.  Because he knew the signs, he was able to specifically ask for them.  While it wasn’t always appropriate or timely, I was able to acknowledge his thoughts and desires.  Naturally, this made him always feel heard – at a minimum.  What does life look like to a toddler without signs?

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