Disability, Does Baby Have? ~ Chris

When you mention that you sign to your baby, some people might initially feel sorry for you.  When you pry a little bit more, you may find out that it’s because they think that your baby is somehow disabled.

However, many parents are realizing the benefits to signing, none of which requires that a baby be deaf or cognitively delayed.  If fact, the research around baby sign language has shown that hearing babies are benefited immensely by being taught to sign.  The research shows that babies who sign have more advanced vocabularies and even higher IQ’s.

I just raise this point because you should be ready to face certain amount of objection when signing to your baby and some of it might be misdirected (at best) or at worst harmful.

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When Baby Speaks There’s No Reason To Continue, Or Introduce Signing ~ Chris

My title should read polar opposite!  In fact, when your baby starts to talk, is the perfect time to add more signs, or even start signing if you haven’t yet.  There are many benefits to adding signs as baby’s turn talking age.

For starters, even babies that can say a few words, rarely say them clearly, nor do they have a complete vocabulary.  It’s tough being a toddler because parents so often misunderstand them.  Signing can quickly add many words to a baby’s repertoire, much faster than can be added verbally.  Where a baby can be taught a sign in seconds as they near 2-years-of-age, a baby might take weeks to add a word.  So as your baby reaches for his verbal explosion, continue to add signs.  It’s pretty much a no-brainer.

The research supports brain development right up until age-3.  Yes, you’ll have lost a lot of the benefits to signing which you could have enjoyed much sooner, but that doesn’t mean your baby can’t still have a ton of fun learning to sign and at the same time enjoy greater learning opportunities and stimulation.  Just like music has been shown to help math skills, signs have been shown to help reading skills.  Signing uses both the left side and right side of the brain, this is a huge stimulus and helps your baby make more neural connections.  The fact is that any stimulation for your toddler will help, but there are few things you can do so simply as to sign.  You need very few resources and you can carry signs around with you wherever you go.  There’s no need for flash-cards (unless you want some) and you don’t need electronic devices (think baby IQ courses).  Signs go with you everywhere and store easily at hand or in a pocket!

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Grandma Was Actually Impressed ~ Chris

It was thanksgiving weekend and my Mom and step Dad were in from out of town for dinner.  I had the chance to show my son off to their delight (and mine too).  It was the first chance I got to really show all the fruits of my labour.

Thankfully, Grandma was impressed.  I say this because it wasn’t always a smooth path forward.  Perhaps it was never said outright, but I could sense that my Mom thought signing was a bit hokey pokey.  She had all the usual concerns – that our baby would be delayed in speaking, that it was a waste of time since he’d be talking soon enough and on and on.  However, she took to him quickly and as he did to her.  He signed up a storm.  We went over his favourite books and signed all the animals.  We covered his motivating signs and also his routine signs.  I showed how he could ask for things.  I made sure to offer him choices between things so he could sign what he wanted.

At the end of the trip she had to admit that he was a pretty smart cookie.  She compared him to his cousin of 6 months his senior – saying he knows more words, but habitually whines instead of asking for things.  Of course he does, I chirped in, he knows what he wants he just can’t say all the big words.  That’s the beauty of sign language.  No matter how big the word, the sign is just about as simple as the rest.  Even if he can’t do the sign perfectly, he’ll come up with a pretty darn good approximation and get his message across.  Before she left I had to remind her that my son wasn’t a genius, that he was just an ordinary toddler.  He just got the early gift of baby sign.

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Conversational ASL ~ Chris

ASL like all languages has its own set of rules governing its grammar – as does English.  You might be surprised to learn that they aren’t identical.

Generally speaking, ASL sentences follow a “topic”, “comment” (predicate) arrangement with many other variations and specifications – sentence specific.  I’m not going to define these because when it comes to signing with your baby, it doesn’t matter.  This isn’t meant to insult the language, I’m very grateful that I can borrow it for my needs, but I’m also not going to overly complicate things just for the sake of it.  If you are keen on learning more about ASL or continuing it through toddler years, then you should definitely pursue this topic further.  There are many closes on offer both online and likely within your community that can help you get along with conversational ASL.

The reason I’m making note of this is because you might hear a quip here and there about your ignorance to rules.  Without being rude, try to tell your critic to park it.  You can remind them about your true intend with baby sign and that you are doing it to benefit your hearing child.  There’s nothing wrong with this – at all.  For now and for the sake of simplicity for you and your baby, just use the words as “labels” and follow the same grammar as you would when speaking English.  Using proper English grammar and signing words as you go while also using proper ASL grammar is entirely impossible (they just aren’t the same).  When our goal is to raise a verbal baby, then we shouldn’t make apologies to our tactics – eventually our babies will talk and they should understand the grammar of English.  In most cases anyway, your baby isn’t going to couple words together until they reach about 18 months when verbalizing is taking a much stronger role in their lives.  Most of what a baby says before that is just a “topic” anyway, so there’s not a whole lot of worry should you decide to carry ASL forward.

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Baby Sign Language Evolution Versus Spoken Language Evolution ~ Chris

Baby sign language develops similar to spoken language development.  First signs are recognized before they can be signed.  That is, your baby will understand what a sign means when you do it, but it will take some time before your baby actually does the signs themselves.  Next, signs begin as approximations to the real sign.  They’ll have similar handshapes and follow similar placement and movement, but won’t be exact replicas of the real signs.  Usually signs are copied at the early stages.  Meaning a parent might ask if a baby would like a certain thing over another.  This is entirely different from a baby who requests something when it’s not present.  This takes some time and brainpower.

Your baby will initially begin to use similar signs for various things.  For example, the sign for BALL is done by moving the hands closer together as if squishing a ball together.  This is similar to the sign for MORE where the hands come together and the fingertips touch.  Babies do a similar thing with language.  Babies will say “bird”, “ball” and “blanket” by saying “bah.”  Usually, it’s easy to know what a baby means based on the context in which baby signs the word.  Babies also often use the same sign to mean more than one thing.  For example, your baby might sign MORE for going OUTSIDE or going for WALK, or because baby wants to see the DOG again.  With time, your baby will learn the differences between the words.

Finally, your baby will experience a signing explosion like they will a talking explosion.  In the early stages your baby is just getting by, but when their mechanical abilities couple perfect with their mental ability, they will add signs at an explosive rate to the point where signs can be added in a matter of minutes.

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