A Fly On The Wall – A Conversation Between My Wife And My Son ~ Chris

At the time, my son was just beginning to speak, but was still using signs with consistency.  As I watched from the kitchen table, my son and wife started up a conversation about what can climb trees.

My son would sign SQUIRREL and make an appropriate squirrel sound (think a mouth smack), to which my wife would nod and say “yes, SQUIRREL’s do climb trees.”  He would then say “Momma” to which she would say “No, Momma doesn’t climb trees she’s too SCARED.”  Then my son would look to me, point, and say “Dadda?” and my wife would reply “Yes, Dadda can climb trees, he’s STRONG.”  Then he’d sign CAT and pat his leg for DOG and my wife would reply that CAT’s can climb trees, but DOG’s can’t.  He’d do a dog sound along with his sign.  Next he’d ask if geese climb trees (using the BIRD sign) coupled with a “g” sound.  My wife would then say “Nope, geese don’t climb trees they walk like this (using her hands on the floor).”  Finally, my son asked if ducks climb trees (BIRD sign with a “d” sound) or crows climb trees (BIRD sign with a “c” sound).  My wife would reply that ducks don’t but that crows do showing him how their toes curl while using her fingers.

Because my son had signs, he was able to combine his limited vocal vocabulary with his signs.  He was able to build his vocabulary and distinguish between several different birds and animals – even when the signs were identical.  By adding in the first letter of the bird he wanted to talk about, he was able to make it clear to us what he meant.  So just by bending the rules a little bit, he adapted ASL to meet his needs and communicate an entire topic.

I found this type of conversation to be truly amazing and it’s all owed to baby sign language.

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Showing Off To Grandma! ~ Chris

When you have non-signers around, always be sure to show off your baby!  No, I’m not being facetious.  Showing your baby off has multiple purposes.  First and foremost it shows others that your baby, while not verbal, has the capacity to communicate their wants, needs and interests.  Second, showing your baby off is a great way to educate others around you about the sorts of signs your baby knows.  Third, showing off some signs that your baby knows will help your friends and family identify patterns in your baby’s motions and actions which might carry meaning – or be signs.

How frustrating would it be to wake up in a world in which your native tongue was suddenly stripped away from you!  Imagine what it might feel like to, all of the sudden be unable to make clear your thoughts.  Now, while babies are already used to this feeling as the words they do say (and signs they do) are garbled in the beginning, and are tremendously adaptable, they will appreciate being heard, even by people who make short visits in their lives.

This is why you should act as a translator to your baby for others.  Yes, people will look at you funny, and probably hold a lot of disbelief and some might even feel that you are harming your baby or that perhaps even that your baby has a disability, but with a little bit of time and effort, you can set them straight.

So next time the grandparents come to visit, take the time to give them an update about which signs your baby is doing so they can join in the conversation.  I guarantee that both your baby and your Mom and Dad will greatly appreciate it!

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Colour Vision Testing ~ Chris

My went in for his first eye appointment at 20 months and everything was just fine.  While there my wife asked a few questions on my behalf.  One of them was regarding colour vision.  Since my son was about 15 months of age, he knew the signs for BLUE, RED, GREEN, YELLOW and could say “black.”  However when we quizzed him on the colours of various things around the house, it became clear that he was more or less guessing.  If he’d been quizzed before, he would have memorized the colour and would repeat it back.

RED was by far his best and most consistent sign to recall even on novel objects.  However, BLUE was a guess as where the majority of the other colours.  He’d call out “black” with good success too.  I guess that’s a fairly easy one as there aren’t many shades to compete with it.

I guess my experience is telling me that signing colours is a complicated affair.  The doctor mentioned that they don’t measure colour vision until age 5.  My wife didn’t get a chance to ask why, but it might have something to do with their ever changing eyes or even their ability to perceive colour.  I think it’s pretty safe to assume that teaching the signs for colour is a advanced and should be reserved for older children.  You never really know if you child somehow has colour blindness (and there are many different types).  You’ll never know if your baby is just not signing right or their perception of clours is different from yours.  You wouldn’t want to put them through the ringer on colour tests when you aren’t even sure if they can see what you do.  If you are adamant in teaching signs, I would say just experiment with them and don’t make a big deal if your toddler gets colours mixed up.  Do always gently correct them though, just don’t put too much importance on being right.

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Which Baby Signs Are Best To Start With? ~ Chris

This is one of the most common questions new signing parents ask.  Quite simply, the three best signs to start with are EAT, MILK and MORE.

First of all, each sign is distinct from one another in the handshape, action and location in which they are made.  EAT has the hand coming to the mouth, MORE has hands coming together at the chest and MILK has one hand opening and closing on its own.  Second, each sign means something totally different.  Third, each sign is simple for a baby to do.  Babies can easily open and close their hand, bring their hands together and bring their hand to their mouth.  Not all signs are quite as simple as these three.  Fourth, these three signs carry a lot of value to a baby so they are highly motivating.  Finally, each sign can be repeated multiple and regular times throughout the day.  This gives you a lot of different contexts in which to show and reward the sign.

After you have mastered these first three signs, it’s time to choose some more complicated signs.  Much more on this in our online course, but if you’re looking to get started right away, give those three a shot!

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Conversing Quietly ~ Courtney

We were trying to play quietly this morning so Daddy could sleep in.  My baby signed that he wanted to play with his big stuffed HIPPO-potamus.  He likes to look at her teeth and eyes and I make it chomp down on his hand when he puts it in her mouth.  He was having so much fun with her, he stopped and gave her a kiss.  I put her “hand” to her mouth and brought it down saying, “THANK YOU!”  He seemed really fascinated that his hippo could do sign language, so I tried a few more: BABY, MORE, and ALL DONE.  He kept asking the hippo to do the sign for baby (my son stills signs it, but also says the word now).  When Daddy woke up, my son was eager to show him too!

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